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Long Marriage

A hand-curated, non-clinical reference for maintaining a long-term relationship or marriage

Unify Dynamics LLC

Documentation
Tools9read-only
Sign-inNoneno account, no key
Data keptNoneprocessed in memory
PriceFreeoptional Pro limits
StatusLiveMCP + REST
Works withMCP · RESTany agent

Try asking

Real questions, and the tools your agent calls to answer them.

How do we communicate better after years together?
Tools called
communication_habits_guide
How do we keep showing appreciation after so many years?
Tools called
appreciation_practices_guide
We keep having the same fight, what do we do?
Tools called
conflict_navigation_guide
How do we handle retirement together?
Tools called
life_transition_guide
We've fallen into a rut, how do we keep things fresh?
Tools called
routine_and_novelty_guide
How do we talk about money without fighting?
Tools called
financial_communication_tips
Give us ideas for our 20th anniversary
Tools called
milestone_ideas
Should we think about couples counseling?
Tools called
when_to_consider_counseling_guide
What's a 'bid for connection'?
Tools called
glossary

About

Long Marriage is a fully local reference for maintaining a long-term relationship or marriage — general and non-clinical, not therapy. communication_habits_guide covers regular check-ins, active listening, "I" statements, repair attempts, and staying curious. appreciation_practices_guide covers ways of regularly expressing appreciation. conflict_navigation_guide covers solvable vs perpetual problems, taking breaks when flooded, gentle conversation starts, and complaining about behavior rather than criticizing character. life_transition_guide gives notes for empty nest, retirement, caregiving for aging parents, a career change, a health change (relationship side only, not medical), and relocating. routine_and_novelty_guide covers balancing ritual with new experiences. financial_communication_tips covers money conversation norms, not financial advice. milestone_ideas gives anniversary ideas. when_to_consider_counseling_guide gives general, non-diagnostic signals that couples counseling might help, framed as ordinary maintenance. glossary defines terms used elsewhere (repair attempt, perpetual problem, flooding, stonewalling, contempt, bid for connection). Not couples therapy or a diagnosis of any relationship. Keyless; fully local; zero upstream calls; nothing you submit is stored.

Sources: Hand-curated general communication reference reflecting widely published, non-clinical relationship-maintenance concepts; fully local, zero upstream calls

Privacy

The publisher, Unify Dynamics LLC, states that tool inputs are processed in memory and not retained.

Data not collectedNo account, no profile, no stored prompts or results.
Privacy policyTerms

What it can do

9 tools, grouped by job. Every one is read-only or compute-only.

OpenAPI
Everyday Connection3 tools
  • Communication habits guideGeneral communication habits for a long-term relationship — regular check-ins, active listening, "I" statements, noticing repair attempts during…
  • Appreciation practices guideWays of regularly expressing appreciation in a long relationship — naming specifics, noticing the ordinary not just big gestures, saying it out…
  • Routine and novelty guideGuidance on balancing reliable, low-effort routine with occasional novelty in a long relationship.
Navigate Together3 tools
  • Conflict navigation guideGeneral, non-clinical tips for navigating disagreement in a long relationship — solvable vs perpetual problems, taking a break when flooded,…
  • Life transition guideNotes for navigating a shared life transition together — becoming empty nesters, retirement, caring for aging parents, a career change or job…
  • Financial communication tipsGeneral communication norms for talking about money as a couple — not financial, budgeting, or tax advice, just how to have the conversation itself.
Mark & Understand3 tools
  • Milestone ideasIdeas for marking an anniversary or relationship milestone — revisiting early memories, a letter to your future selves, a meaningful rather than…
  • When to consider counseling guideGeneral, non-diagnostic signals that couples counseling might help — a repeating unresolved conflict, contempt showing up in conflict, a life…
  • GlossaryDefinitions of terms used elsewhere in this connector — repair attempt, perpetual problem, flooding, stonewalling, contempt, bid for connection.

Information

PublisherUnify Dynamics LLC
CategoryEveryday life
LanguagesEnglish
Built forGlobal
CompatibilityAny MCP client · any agent · REST
Version0.1.0
MCP endpointhttps://longmarriage.connectorbay.com/mcp
REST APIopenapi.json
SupportGet help · Status
CountryWorldwide

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Documentation

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What Long Marriage is for

"How do we keep our marriage strong after decades?", "we keep having the same fight, what do we do?", "how do we stay connected after retirement?" — a general, practical, non-clinical reference for the ordinary work of maintaining a long-term relationship.

What it does

communication_habits_guide covers habits like regular check-ins, active listening, "I" statements, noticing repair attempts during conflict, and staying curious rather than assuming you already know a longtime partner's mind. appreciation_practices_guide covers ways of regularly expressing appreciation — naming specifics, not just big gestures, saying it out loud. conflict_navigation_guide covers distinguishing a solvable problem from a perpetual one, taking a break when a conversation gets too heated, starting conversations gently, and complaining about a specific behavior rather than criticizing character. life_transition_guide gives notes for transitions couples navigate together — becoming empty nesters, retirement, caring for aging parents, a career change, a health change (staying scoped to the relationship side, not medical guidance), and relocating. routine_and_novelty_guide covers balancing reliable ritual with occasional new experiences. financial_communication_tips covers general norms for talking about money as a couple, not financial or tax advice. milestone_ideas gives ideas for marking an anniversary. when_to_consider_counseling_guide gives general, non-diagnostic signals that couples counseling might help, framed as ordinary relationship maintenance rather than a sign of failure. glossary defines terms used elsewhere (repair attempt, perpetual problem, flooding, stonewalling, contempt, bid for connection).

What it is not

Not couples therapy, not individual therapy, and not a diagnosis of any relationship. This is general, practical, non-clinical communication reference content — useful as a starting point or a refresher, not a replacement for a licensed couples counselor when a relationship needs more than general guidance can offer.

Privacy policy

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Long Marriage — Privacy Policy

Effective 24 September 2026. Unify Dynamics LLC ("we", "us"), Menlo Park, California.

What Long Marriage is. Long Marriage is a connector (an MCP server and REST API) that AI assistants and personal agents call on your behalf for hand-curated, general reference tips for maintaining a long-term relationship or marriage. You interact with your assistant; the assistant sends us only the arguments needed for that one lookup.

What we receive. The arguments of each tool call — a topic name or a glossary term — the technical headers needed to serve the request (an IP address or a client identifier supplied by the assistant, and a Pro API key if you have one), and standard server logs.

Everything is answered from bundled, hand-curated reference content and nothing is stored. No request is forwarded to any third party — there is no upstream call at all, live or otherwise — and no query is logged in request bodies, recorded, or used to train anything.

What we do not receive or store. We do not receive your conversation with the assistant or your name, and we do not build a profile from your queries: each request is answered independently and nothing carries over between requests. Rate-limit counters (a client identifier and timestamps) are held in memory for at most 24 hours. Hosting-provider access logs, which contain IP addresses and request paths but not request bodies, are retained for up to 30 days for security and abuse prevention.

Sub-processors. None — the entire dataset is bundled with the server and answered locally. Hosting: Vercel (United States regions).

Legal bases and your rights. Our processing is necessary to provide the service you request through your assistant. Because we store no personal data beyond short-lived logs, requests to access, correct or delete personal data are usually satisfied automatically; you can still contact agent@connectorbay.com and we will respond within 30 days. We do not sell or share personal information and do not use your data to train models.

Children. Long Marriage is a general-audience service operated by the adult using the assistant.

Changes. We will post changes here with a new effective date.

Terms of service

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Long Marriage — Terms of Service

Effective 24 September 2026. These terms govern use of the Long Marriage connector ("the Service") operated by Unify Dynamics LLC ("we", "us").

  1. The Service. Long Marriage returns hand-curated, general reference tips for maintaining a long-term relationship or marriage. It is accessed through an AI assistant or directly over MCP or HTTP.
  2. Not a substitute for professional advice. Long Marriage is general relationship-communication reference content, not couples therapy, counseling, or a diagnosis of any relationship. It does not know your specific situation, and it cannot replace judgment formed with real support from the people and professionals in your life.
  3. Reference, not real-time guidance. Content reflects general, widely applicable practice as of the build date stated in the Service's own data.
  4. Acceptable use. Automated use within the published rate limits is welcome.
  5. Availability. The Service is provided "as is" without warranty. We may change, limit or discontinue it at any time.
  6. Data. Our Privacy Policy describes what we process. In short: your query is answered from bundled reference content, and nothing is stored.
  7. Pro keys. Optional Pro API keys are issued at our discretion, are personal to the holder and may be revoked for abuse.
  8. Liability. To the fullest extent permitted by law, Unify Dynamics LLC is not liable for any loss, injury, or damage arising from use of, or reliance on, the Service. Our total liability is limited to US $100.
  9. Governing law. California law; venue in San Mateo County, California.
  10. Contact. Unify Dynamics LLC · agent@connectorbay.com · https://connectorbay.com/longmarriage

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Long Marriage support

Email agent@connectorbay.com. We answer within two business days.

When you report a problem, include the question you asked your agent, roughly when, and which agent you used (for example Claude, ChatGPT or Gemini). Never send us passwords, account numbers or ID numbers. Long Marriage never asks for them.

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Streamable HTTP, stateless, no authentication. Paste the endpoint into any MCP-capable agent.

https://longmarriage.connectorbay.com/mcp
{
  "mcpServers": {
    "longmarriage": {
      "type": "http",
      "url": "https://longmarriage.connectorbay.com/mcp"
    }
  }
}